Four tips for couples who hate having their photo taken
There's enough to think about on your wedding day without worrying that your every move is being photographed. If you're camera-shy, getting married can feel like a lot: on the happiest day of your life, you're facing one of your biggest pet peeves, not once or twice, but all day.
If you hate having your photo taken, a wedding is basically your own bushtucker trial, minus the "get me out of here" option. So if you're engaged and dreading the camera, here are four tips to help.
1. Do an engagement shoot
Ok, so you already hate the camera and my answer is to put you in front of it more? I know. But that's exactly why it works. It's like those fear of flying courses that end with you on a plane. An engagement shoot gets you used to me and the camera, so on your wedding day you can relax and enjoy it. I'm not a miracle worker, but it really does work wonders for couples who insist they hate being photographed.
2. Talk to me about it
I've been there. I've had my own wedding day, trying to act natural with a camera clicking away, so I know exactly how it feels. Being on the other side of the lens now hasn't changed that. If anything, it's why I'm a good fit for couples who aren't keen on being photographed. There's no shame in telling me. I'd much rather you were upfront so we can work through it together, well before the day. The morning of your wedding is not the time to mention it.
3. Have your portraits away from everyone
A lot of camera shyness is really about being the centre of attention, and on your wedding day everyone's watching (and getting their phones out). So we'll slip away somewhere quiet for your two short portrait sessions. With nobody watching, you'll feel much more relaxed. You'd be amazed how many couples say those few minutes, just the two of them, were their favourite part of the day.
4. Have fun and don't overthink it
I know I say this a lot, but please just relax and enjoy your day. I get that you want your photos to be perfect. Let me worry about that. The best photos happen naturally, when two people are just being themselves.
Don't worry about the light or where your arm is. I'm not trying to fill a magazine spread. I won't ask you to fake a kiss or say cheese. I just need the two of you to be you, and on your wedding day, that's a lot easier than it sounds.
If you're nervous about an engagement shoot or your wedding photos, I hope this helps a little. And if you'd like to talk it through, my inbox is always open.
