Back in 2024, Will and I celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary, and I still can't believe how fast those years went.


Planning a wedding is a bit like a rollercoaster: thrilling highs, a few unexpected twists, and before you know it, the day is over in a happy blur. But here's the best bit: the wedding is just the beginning.


Marriage is where the real adventure starts. Over ten years we've had a lot of growth, a lot of laughter and some tough times, and we've come out stronger. We're both different people than we were ten years ago, and getting to know each other as we change is one of the best parts. So here are ten things I've learned in our ten years. Whether you're planning a wedding, newly married or a few years in, I hope something here rings true.


1. Communication is everything

I'm a verbal communicator. I say what's on my mind, often without much editing, and Will has learned to be patient with my "Tashisms", as he calls them. Will is quieter. He communicates through small things, like a quick cuddle, and his face usually says it all. Learning to read each other's styles has made us stronger, even when we don't agree.


2. Embrace change together

New jobs, a first home (a never-ending project), and a chaos puppy (Pippin, I'm looking at you). Every change has pulled us closer together.


3. Make time for each other

It's so easy to blink and realise it's July when Christmas feels like last week. We keep it simple: morning walks, Skyjo nights (our favourite card game), fish and chips on the beach, paddleboarding, and walks with Pippin. Those little moments matter most.


4. Support each other's dreams

I'd never have had the courage to become a photographer without Will. From his very supportive "stop moaning about it and just do it" to buying my first proper camera and giving up weekends to assist at weddings, I wouldn't be doing my dream job without him. When he decided photography wasn't his passion and went after a job he loves, I couldn't have been prouder.


5. Keep the romance going

Small gestures make a big difference: a note left on my camera bag, a surprise date night, a heartfelt compliment. They remind us why we fell for each other in the first place.


6. Be each other's biggest cheerleader

Watching Will finish a marathon is amazing, even though running is a sport I'll never understand. He's been my rock through the hard bits of building a business, and I'm always there cheering him on.


7. Face the hard stuff as a team

We've had real lows, including losing people we love. Getting through them together has made our partnership stronger.


8. Appreciate the little things

A silly joke, a kind word, a hug at the end of a long day. The small moments really are the building blocks.


9. Keep your sense of humour

Some of our best memories are full of laughter, like Will trying to teach me to run properly and both of us ending up in stitches. Not taking life too seriously helps with everything.


10. Never stop getting to know each other

Having our own interests, and respecting each other's time for them, keeps things fresh. There's always something new to learn about each other.


Looking back on ten years, I'm so grateful, and excited for what's next. Whether you're just starting out or years in, enjoy the adventure. Here's to many more decades of love and laughter.


Thank you to my super talented friend Katherine & Her Camera for our anniversary couple session.